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Without putting yourself out there too much, it is definitely a good Rorschach test to see where his mind is at.
If he responds by elaborately describing what he wants to do to your body or what he wants you to do to his, then yeah, sex is definitely his primary agenda.
Meeting at a bar or inviting you straight over to his place?
However, people generally know whether or not they are open to a relationship, and if he expresses that he is definitely looking for one, then you have to take that as the truth.
If his response to a relationship is lukewarm, that doesn't necessarily mean the date should be a no-go.
Throughout dating literature and countless conversations amongst single women, it seems to be the general rule of thumb that men should be the initiators of every step of the dating process - from the first conversation, to the first date, to the first kiss and so on.
While it’s true that the dynamics between each coupling are different and should be treated as such, I fear that many eligible women are missing out by going radio silent.